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THE PURSUIT - with Patrick Kerwin
THE PURSUIT - with Patrick Kerwin

Episode 9 · 8 months ago

What TIME is it in Your Life? | Making a Tough DECISION at the Crossroads of Life

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At the crossroads of life? Looking to make a tough life decision. This one's for you.
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Hey It's Cathicara and welcome to thepursuit podcast. We give you practical tips on chasing your dreams, awakeningyour potential and living an extraordinary life. Hey just quickheads up fore. We get started in these special audio recordings of our Yutuseries. You may hear me reference images on screen that you can't see orteach a lesson with a drawing or diagram. All I ask is that in yourbeautiful imagination, my handwriting actually looks legible and my doodleslook. You know like a professional, amared m cool you're the best now, ifyou want to join our growing community of entrepreneurs, creatives and peoplefollowing their inner fire, you'll find the links below in the show notes. I'mso thankful you've chosen to spend some time learning and growing with us todaythat further do enjoy. Today's also hey welcome back to the pursuit. Wehelp you awaken your potential and achieve your dreams. My name is Patrickand, on today's episode were focused on one thing: the Cross roads of life inhelping you make a clear decision about...

...your future and your next bold move allright. So if you're new to the community welcome to the channel, we,if you want to join our community of creatives and entrepreneurs followingtheir inner fire, then you can hit that subscribe button below and not forgetto hit that bell to be notified e, any future content. All right. Let's getright in today's episode, Hey listen, seeing the film person standing at thecrossroads of life. Maybe that's you and this one question: What time is itin your life? My one of my my tors and friends called it the clocks question.Maybe it is time for you to change careers. Maybe it is time for you tobuild that next product or program it's going to change people's lives. Maybeit's time for you to lay roots. Maybe it's time for you for some personaldevelopment to kind of you've achieved what you want to achieve it, maybeyou're not really being the person you want to be whatever time it is in yourlife. My friend, I hope today really...

...serves you. So let's come back to this.This idea of the cross roads in life, like you are here, that's a terrible!I'm drawing stick people today, just just set expectations: Okay, you'resitting here at the cross, roads of life and you're wondering like go. Do Inot go, and if I do go with what direction do I go? How do I get myselfto make the decision that I need to make and take the action? That's goingto change my life now, let's just walk through it, I'm a calm,the four eight four, as the fourth want to to give you a antiche. Fourth, oneis action: okay, but how do we get to action? Let's take the look, so youstart off here with these four as a process, I walk all of my coachingclients through when anyone stuck in a place where they, just they don't knowwhat to do next or there's not seeing themselves. Take Action. Here's how toget yourself to take action. So, let's just call at the bottom of the bottomone is- is decisive, consistent action...

...towards your goals in the dream, soresthat next bold move or career change or back to health, whatever you're tryingto do now to get to action. There's a couple of steps actually before that. Iknow this isn't just a Nike just do it there's actually a process to gettowards where you actually see yourself take action. HERE'S THE FIRST ONE! Ifyou want to change at this point, the first one is universal rule. Pay attention pay attention to the resultsthat you're currently getting in your life. Now in our illuminate course, wein our elevate course as well. We do a personal life inventory. We take aninventory of where we are on the road of life and how things are going for us.We allow that those wake up, calls to wake us up, but either way step. One ofyou, gotta focus on. What's going on, you can't live distracted. You can'tplay more games or watch more TV, the first step to get incredible change inlife, his dial in to focus to pay...

...attention to the results that you'recurrently getting. How you're feeling, how you're thinking, how that's how youknow what time it is now. Is that always easy? I got to be honest. It'sone of the hardest steps to begin to do this. Emersion or do this dunk, as Ikind of refer to it in this area of your life, that's the first bold movethat you can take hey guys is Patrick. While I got yourear there's two things you can do to help us grow. This channel spreadermessage of joy in the world number one it that subscribe button and make surethat you're notified of any future content that we drop and to had im backto that mane channel with the beautiful thumbs of yours just start, throwing ussome stars and if you really feeling inspired leave us a comment house withthe algorithms helps us row this channel and helps us spread our messagefurther into the world, all right guys! That's it! For me. Let's get back totoday's episode. Ole, say you've taken that move,Patrick I'm there I'm thinking about it...

...all the time, I'm feeling all kinds ofstuff. Well, naturally, as a result of directing that energy towards thattopic or air of your life, some next a awareness is going. There's a there's,an N. let me try, I'm not really good at the spelling when I'm writing e n eSS there we go awareness, it's going to naturally bloom or blossom. If youthink about it, like your attention is like the water that's being poured, thesunshine is being poured on the seed and as a result of that, it's going tostart to bloom. What is a bloom with insights knowledge information? Itcould be stuff that you're thinking it could be information stuff that you'refeeling or- and what do you do with that? Information is one, and I wouldencourage you to write it down. We've covered some of these ideas in previousvideos. I'll link them in the show notes below the idea is that when these awarenessis come out, it's very important that...

...you alkow Ledge, then that you don'trun from them. You don't hide from them now. Some of these awareness is ininsights of me here, inspiring to maybe it's the beginning of that new idea.It's super juicy and exciting in the instructions. The same right write itdown. Doodle, it don't let it be lost to time, because the moment found youand you didn't write it down. Okay, sometimes those awarenesses aren't soinspiring, sometimes they're more on the dramatic side. you start to saythings like I'm feeling bummed and I'm feeling all these emotions right now.Let me just pause here on this idea of emotions, and we cover this in aprevious video. Maybe link it at the end of the video. Here is yourinstruction during the awareness stage, which is kind of a sensitive stage, ifwe're being honest, is B with whatever awareness comes out of you knowe it jotit. If you want to further help with that, you can. Let me know: Okay, we've done this rat the back at thecross, roads ready to make a decision ready to take action. Our fourth, awe've focused in on that area of our...

...life that needs that extra tls in intentionwe've built the awareness he let them bloom and we've wrote them down, gotsome good insight. Now the pivotal turning part before action becomespossible, for I see any human being, as only people have coach action. Thisthird thing happens: acceptance, there's a couple of things that areessential to accept at these stages, and it goes something like this twothings, two major things to accept one. It's time because back to the question we used toask at the very beginning what time I supposed to be a clock: What time is itin your life right now and if you were to accept that it's time for you tochange careers, it's time for you to get back to health, it's time for youto make that next product, even if you that idea may not be there yet it'sjust time for you. If you are willing...

...to accept that and there's no turning back from thatplace, my friend you're very much ready to start taking action, but there's onemore thing. I see people do this all the time. They'll skip this last thingand it will come back to bite you as it's come back to by me and so manyother people. If you don't accept this second necessary thing for you to takemassive action in your life, is it's you you've got it. You've got the knowledge. You've gotthe skills. You've got the ability to do this, and if you don't guess whatelse you have the sourceless to figure it out the faith figure it up. I'vedone so many things in my life that I didn't know the road to get there. Ididn't know, but I knew that it was time and I knew that he was within myability. I said Yes to the ability within me and so many people, if that'syour story to, let me know when the comments below that moment, that madeyou say now's the time for this to come...

...to life and once you've said it's timefor me and I've got what I accept that I've got what it takes. Even if I don'tknow how to do this I'll figure it out that's. My friend is when action startsto come out of human beings when they were at the cross roads and we say thedo it not do it do it not to it is a time is not time. That's when peoplesay let's do this, and I hope that maybe this gave you a little bit of anidea, but I get that process going in your life now, if you have some thoughts for theirquestions, let us know in the comments below, but hey thanks, so much fordoing in for another episode of the pursuit to hope to inspire action yourday until we meet again in the fire within me, the happiest heights and theroad you travel, you won or fights. I see next time.

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